Dear Doctor Samspop
COVID has really impacted my wedding plans but now things seem to be calming down a little bit and I have started planning for my wedding again.
The problem is that my my chief bridesmaid seems to only have negative things to say about everything I decide. She is against my colour scheme, she is against the people I want in my bridal party and even against the dj I want to choose. She is my best friend and I love her but I really can’t take her negativity anymore. What do I do?
This is really simple. Stop telling your chief bridesmaid your plans, unless she is the one paying for your wedding? Her role is to support you and by the look of things that support need only come on the actual day. Maybe we will find another time to delve into why it seems you are not open enough to tell her how negative she has been and how unhelpful it is. Dear Sarfo, it is your wedding day, your day, your way.